You say: Are you sure you don't want a secure job with benefits?
I hear: I want the security of a job with benefits, and I wouldn't take that risk.
You say: When are you having children?
I hear: Goodbye freedom.
You say: When are you getting married?
I hear: Goodbye autonomy.
You say: Once you have kids you'll change your mind and be pro-life (aka anti-choice).
I hear: As a woman talking to another woman, your choices do not matter once you have children.
You say: Maybe you shouldn't wear something so low cut/tight/short.
I hear: Your body doesn't belong to you.
When they asked questions about my choices, this triggered my most primal fear of not belonging."
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