Wielding Your Power

To wield something means one can have power and influence over a group of people, a situation, or an object.  It is both a tool and a weapon depending upon how you choose to wield that power.  

Words are powerful tools....and weapons.  What you say, how you say it, and when you say it can help someone, or harm them.  Words of reassurance when unprovoked can help immensely.  People make choices every day that may make them feel they are letting someone down.  I see it most in mothers, the guilt, of requesting some peace and quiet.  A sincere, "I understand. We'll be here next time."  That may lift a weight off their chest.

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Choosing what to say and how to say it takes practice, so you can't hide behind the fear of saying the wrong thing.  You will mess up.  You aren't perfect.  That is why we practice, and hone this craft that many take for granted.  Communication has always been the gateway.  The key has always been listening.  But that's for another mini.